Yesterday, my Grandma passed away peacefully while she slept. She was surrounded by ones she loved and by those who loved her so dearly. She lived a long life; eighty eight years. She was a wonderful Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother and Great Great Grandmother. What an accomplishment she was!
Through the grief of loosing someone I love, I am comforted by God’s ultimate gift of love…
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son,
that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” – John 3:16
For God so loved my Grandma, that He gave His only begotten Son, that because she believed in Him, she didn’t perish, but is having everlasting life!
Because of that wonderful gift, my Grandma is “more alive” than me today! She is walking in glory on those streets of gold and I’m sure she is amazed and in awe!
If I could describe my Grandma, it would be a woman full of admiration! Whenever I would talk to her, she would listen, give you her full attention and always responded with such admiration.
She made you feel as though whatever you said or did was important! She took everything to heart and made you feel valued and special. No matter how little the accomplishment or how simple the story… to my Grandma, what you said had worth!
This reminds me how our heavenly father looks at our hearts… He doesn’t look at all the wonderful or not so wonderful things we may have done. He looks you and chooses you, simply because you’re you; His creation!
My Grandma looked at the ones she loved with admiration; not because they did all these amazing or not so amazing things, but because in her eyes, you were important simply because you were you… someone she valued and loved!
A common thing I remember her say was… “Oh, that’s just wonderful!” It seemed like the simplest news to Grandma was wonderful enough to bring a tear of joy to her eyes. Having someone around who is for you, not against you, someone who cheers you on, someone who uplifts and makes you feel important; is a person to admire, someone who truly radiates God’s love.
I am encouraged by my Grandma… to take that positive spirit and continue to strive to be that way in my own life. I am encouraged to value people, to find ways to be amazed and show admiration for them because people are of worth and value; they are one of God’s creations.
Angela